{"id":6953,"date":"2016-02-29T18:22:19","date_gmt":"2016-02-29T18:22:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/?p=6953"},"modified":"2022-06-07T13:33:24","modified_gmt":"2022-06-07T17:33:24","slug":"harassment-in-tech-why-men-need-to-speak-out-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/harassment-in-tech-why-men-need-to-speak-out-now\/","title":{"rendered":"Harc\u00e8lement dans le secteur technologique\u00a0: pourquoi les hommes doivent s\u2019exprimer maintenant"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\nBy Michael Kaufman<\/em><\/strong>
\nInitialement publi\u00e9 sur le Men Advocating for Real Change (MARC)<\/a> blog.<\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a tough time for women in the tech industry. A recent survey of women<\/a> working in Silicon Valley and the Bay Area found that 60% reported unwanted sexual advances. Eighty-seven percent reported hearing demeaning comments about women. Eighty-eight percent had clients or colleagues address questions to male peers that should have been addressed to them. Eighty-four percent have been told they were too aggressive.<\/p>\n

Who were these women?<\/p>\n

Seventy-seven percent were over 40 years old, one in four had a C-suite position, one in ten was a company founder\u2014these were not women in their first jobs who had little in the way of experience or clout.<\/p>\n

Many men will respond with concern and alarm. But, sadly, others will react with denial. And some will throw out excuses along the lines of \u201cWhat do you expect? It\u2019s an alpha-male world. If you can\u2019t take the heat, get out of the Valley.\u201d<\/p>\n

Few women I\u2019ve worked with over the years would be surprised by either the levels of harassment and discrimination or by the denial and excuses that some men toss their way.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all too easy to point to the dogged devotion to work that it takes to get ahead. Or the homogeneity some start-ups strive for to create the cohesion supposedly necessary to succeed against long odds. Or the stereotype of men in this industry\u2014socially awkward, basement-dwelling nerds\u2014that don\u2019t exactly give them the agency to do the right thing.<\/p>\n

These might be explanations. But, as men, we need to face two things. First, too many of our brothers are responsible for unwanted workplace behavior. And second, too many of us are responsible for staying silent.<\/p>\n

The majority of men do pas <\/em>harass women, make demeaning comments, or discriminate in hiring or promotions (although we might bring in unconscious biases). But unfortunately, a significant minority of men do such things. If the majority doesn\u2019t speak out, this minority will continue to define the work culture of a whole industry.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it is critical for men in tech to start taking real leadership, working alongside women, to create work environments that are gender equitable and welcoming to all. After all, men\u2014who still dominate tech companies and have defined the work environments\u2014have the power to bring about change.<\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t the only reason why we need men to speak out. Men look to other men to define their values and behaviors. Young men, fresh out of college, tend to model their behaviors on the men who have beaten the path before them.<\/p>\n

The good news is that more men are embracing equitable environments. My son, who runs a life-sciences tech startup developing a digital assessment to detect and monitor Alzheimer\u2019s, <\/a>notes that half his team are women, and he tells me it\u2019s not unusual to see large numbers of women in life-science tech companies.<\/p>\n

The other good news for men is that this will strengthen our own work experiences. It means firms can more effectively tap into a wider range of talent and ensure that women who are hired will stick around. It means more women in positions of leadership who will bring unique insights to products and the market. It will mean that the many men who don\u2019t feel comfortable with a locker-room atmosphere will have healthier workplaces. And it will support a push for more family-friendly workplaces.<\/p>\n

After all, we now have a whole generation of young men who, like women, don\u2019t want to sacrifice their families for their jobs and who value workplaces that support them as parents\u2014and as people.<\/p>\n

Michael Kaufman<\/a> is the author of eight books and has worked with the UN, governments, and corporations for three decades to engage men to promote gender equality. His website is\u00a0www.michaelkaufman.com<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

L'auteur et membre senior d'Equimundo, Michael Kaufman, explique pourquoi il est essentiel que les hommes du secteur technologique commencent \u00e0 prendre un v\u00e9ritable leadership, en travaillant aux c\u00f4t\u00e9s des femmes, pour cr\u00e9er des environnements de travail \u00e9quitables entre les sexes et accueillants pour tous.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":160,"featured_media":6958,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"_relevanssi_hide_post":"","_relevanssi_hide_content":"","_relevanssi_pin_for_all":"","_relevanssi_pin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_unpin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_include_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_exclude_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_no_append":"","_relevanssi_related_not_related":"","_relevanssi_related_posts":"","_relevanssi_noindex_reason":"","footnotes":""},"tags":[218,248,567,271],"class_list":["post-6953","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-gender-equality","tag-michael-kaufman","tag-silicon-valley","tag-workplace-equality","program_areas-caring-men","program_areas-social-connection","geography-global","geography-north-america","geography-united-states"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6953","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/160"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6953"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6953\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13375,"href":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6953\/revisions\/13375"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6958"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.equimundo.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}